i was playing with my computer and i found his calendar that he shares with his friends.He said he's going to work but he didn't ,instead he check-in to the motel according to his calendar.He belongs to web-hosting to communicate to all kinds of women.
What will ido with this kind of husband?
You will sit down and talk to him. There isn't any reason to keep investigating. Either he will tell you the truth or he won't and based on what he says you make decisions from there. Sneaking around to find out more information will only drive you nuts.
What will ido with this kind of husband?
Be honest, you were checking up on him.
Reply:i see a divorce in your future.
Reply:oh boy. perhaps you should stop by the hotel that he checked into. Maybe check the credit card statements. I'm sorry, this is not a good situation to be dealing with.
Reply:I think you are wise and you know what you should do. Think for yourself.
Reply:Confront him and get it out in the open. Then you can see what he is doing. If he won't explain, leave him.
Reply:better watchout for him, sounds like a cheater
Reply:BINGO! You just nailed him! Now what will you do with your information?
Reply:divorce
Reply:He is obviously a liar and maybe a cheater. Decide what you are and are not willing to put up with. Confront him.
Reply:question him and since you're already snooping you might at well check out this hotel biz.
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Is he cheating?
You’ve mentioned one of the tell-tale signs of cheating, but are the other signs there too?
Is he wearing new clothes “to work”?
Is he suddenly busy during times when he used to be free?
Is his phone turned off for long periods at a time?
Have his spending habits changed?
These are some questions you should find the answers to and before you investigate further, read here for more advice
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The most important sign of cheating is the changes in a man’s behavior. Most women take care of themselves: they have their hair color, they have their nails; and that's harder to detect. But with a man what we usually find is all of the sudden, out of the blue, he decides, 'My God, I've got to lose weight. Look at the state of me. I'd better start going to the gym. Gee, I'll change my hairstyle. I might just change what I'm wearing.' And that'll be because he's met somebody. That, out of the blue is going to be like a neon sign going off. Here's a guy who's been a couch potato all his life, and he's starting to jog every morning. So that's the most important sign. The other one is the mobile telephone.
The telephone has made it easier to uncover an affair. The first thing someone will do when they're having an affair is their mobile phone becomes like a baby. They breast-feed it. They can't leave it alone. They'll take it to the bathroom with them. They'll constantly be checking it.
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Reply:This doesn't sound too good....I would be doing some investigating...good luck to you....
Reply:First decide what you want. Do you want him to stop? If so, what will you do if he won't? Will you leave? Cry and whine?
If the answer is leave then confront him. If its cry and whine, I suggest you put your head in the sand on this one. No point making idle threats.
Reply:Rosemary,
Be certain that he didn't place that for you to find and I am sorry in either case. I would have someone follow him and make sure of what is going on. If he is being unfaithful then you must make a Choice but I would say if you have an unfaithful husband that he will never be faithful to you. Do you want to share him with whoever he finds? Do you want to share the chance of getting unspeakable diseases that may/may not be curable? Do you feel it important to ramain with him? These are all questions that must be asked. I hope that you make a decision that will be best for you and your family. I am sorry that this has happened but it has. Make whatever decision you must as soon as you are able to do so. I hope that you week improves.
Thanks,
Eds, Christian
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Reply:sounds like a cheating husband behind your back. You should investigate him, find out first, for sure if he really is cheating on you before you confront him %26amp; leave him if he really is doing this. It's sad to read about all these cheating husbands on this website.
Reply:ask him then slap the crap out of him then divorce him
Reply:Look miss - marriage is a very important step between two persons - you both have to stydy first and put GOD in you lives and house then you both will have a long happy marriage - best wishes
Reply:You probably weren't playing with the computer, you were snooping because this isn't the first time you've caught him. Don't get me wrong - snooping is totally fine in my book, especially when it's deserved. Let him know that you're on to him and that you'll "talk" after his trip. Oh, but don't tell him until he's ready to leave. That way he'll have a supper sh*tty time because he'll be nervous and guilty.
Reply:Well you now know that he is a liar and most likely a cheater also. Can you ever trust him again?
Reply:Boot him out and inform him he can check into any hotel he wants and call it home.
Reply:get even,Revenge is sweet.I caught my husband screwing around before I left went to a motel BY MYSELF for three days.I left him with the kids and made him wonder.He never did it again.
Reply:Get rid-of him. He lied to you.
Reply:Try and find out for sure about the motel incident, what transpired etc. Then calmly asked him if he had a nice time and take it from there.
Remember we have to live with the choices we make!
Reply:Well it was YOUR computer. Regardless if you were "snooping" or not, you found something that effects your marriage.
As uncomfortable as it might be, you have to confront him. If you try to keep a lid on it, you will build up resentments.
I'm curious as to how you know he is web-hosting and communicating with all kinds of women. Did you know that ahead of time? If so, for sure there is something going on. He's MARRIED. . . no reason to be web-hosting for other women .... What is he some kind of damn social director.
Reply:oops!
tahst not good!!! he seems to be fooling around and u are checkin on him ! guys u have trust crisises!u need to deal with the kinda marrige u end up having more tha the details. it coudl be the iceberg tip . i think u shoudl go to him in that motel ( dont make scene though) and talk it through.
its gonna get ugly not body like to be red handed so make sure ur ready
good luck
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